For example: I was talking about my daily task to a Dom in one of my chats. He asked if I had performed my task that morning and his response was the following:
Dom: That is not acceptable, Needy. You know it.
me: Yes but in my defense he had sex last night.
Dom: And your point is what? It is not your decision, girl, if you perform the task or not.
me: Well in a way it is....he finished up in a place I won't go afterward.
(Now I am really embarrassed.")
Dom: Explain, Needy.
me: Omg....plain English...he came in my ass! (more embarrassment)
Dom: I see. Then you either wash off his cock before sucking him off or jerk him off, girl. Again, his decision not yours.
me: Way to watch out for him.
Dom: Watch your mouth, girl. "if your were mine" I wouldn't tolerate such. Rest assured if you didn't complete a task I gave without permission or a damn good reason then you'd be punished.